Focus on the lips…
The labia minora and majora, colloquially known as vaginal lips are the lip-like structures around the vaginal opening.
The labia majora are the outer lips of the vulva, pads of fatty tissue that wrap around the vulva. These labia are usually covered with pubic hair, and contain numerous sweat and oil glands, and it has been suggested that the scent from these are sexually arousing.
The labia minora are the inner lips of the vulva, thin stretches of tissue within the labia majora that fold and protect the vagina, urethra, and clitoris. The appearance of labia minora can vary widely, from tiny lips that hide between the labia majora to large lips that protrude. The most common metaphor for the labia minora is that of a flower. Both the inner and outer labia are quite sensitive to touch and pressure.
This is why most women would love it if their lips are kissed, caressed, nibbled, licked and sucked. Anything that causes pressure to the lips causes a pleasurable sensation. Different sensations keep your partner interested and hence aroused. Fluctuate pressure and technique.
Playing and focusing on the lips prepares your partner for what’s coming next…
The more aroused the lips are the more blood flows to the genital area and this increases sensation and sensitivity to all the vaginal area.
(more tips coming up soon…)