Prior to its usage as a term for a pre wedding party “hen party” was used in the United States as a general term for an all female gathering usually held at a hostesses residence. In 1897 it was noted that “hen party” was a “time honored idea that tea and chitchats, gossip smart hats, constitute the necessary adjuncts to these particular gatherings”. In 1940 it was described as hosting a Christmas time “hen” party for cabinet wives and “ladies of the press”

The bachelorette party is consciously modelled after the centuries-old bachelor party which is itself historically a dinner given by the bridegroom to his friends shortly before his wedding.

Although the practice of giving a party to honour the bride-to-be goes back for centuries, in its modern form, the bachelorette party may have begun during the sexual revolution of the 1960s. It was uncommon until at least the mid-1980s, and the first book on planning bachelorette parties wasn’t published until 1998. Its cultural significance is largely tied to concepts of gender equality. 

Initially, parties in honour of the bride-to-be that were labeled as bachelorette party often involved displays of sexual freedom, such as trading intimate secrets, getting drunk, and enjoying male strippers. Parties that honored the bride-to-be without these elements avoided that label. Now the term is used for a wide variety of parties.

The phrase “Hen Party” mirrors the male “Stag Party” in referencing social stereotypes of each gender at the party.

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Plan an unforgettable evening during a steamy time of year, like July or August in most parts of the country, because you’ll have more opportunities to get it on discreetly outside, like in your yard or on your roof. Being outdoors means you’ve already left your comfort zone, so you may be more likely to think outside the box. “Plus, sunshine boosts serotonin in the brain, which improves your mood, so you may enjoy yourself more,” says Tammy Nelson, PhD, a sex and relationship expert in New Haven, CT, and author of Getting the Sex You Want .

As you’ve likely noticed, men often wake up with erections. So set your alarm for 10 minutes earlier on a work day and have a quickie first thing in the morning. You might enjoy it more, too. As men / women age, they tend to get more tired at night, so evening sex is less desirable. In other words, you have more energy for a crack-of-dawn romp than a late-night one.

Tip 1: Get checked! 

Premature Ejaculation can be, very rarely, caused by infection or problems with the prostate, hypertension of the penis, or other medical problems.

This is why it is vital that you get checked.  Book yourself a prostate and physical examination.  This will help understand if the problem is caused by any physical problems.  Premature Ejaculation can be a symptom of very serious, life – threatening prostate problems so we would always suggest that you get checked.

An infection will make your penis more sensitive and hence you will ejaculate quicker than usual.

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